Men and women fall in love very differently, but
both with their heads -- although different kind of head.
I had this debate with one of my scientist friends
earlier today about love or more precisely, the way we fall in love. He
believes humans should just be human and follow our animal instinct to love.
But I think we should carefully choose whom to love first.
Ask all women, and you will get the same answer.
The worst nightmare a woman can have is to be in love with the wrong man. Of
course it’s probably true for some men too, but women tend to give everything
when they fall and they put their men on top priority.
Well at least that’s what happens to me when I fall
in love. So I usually try to be cautious. I have to be able to picture the
future with someone before I allow myself to open my heart and anything else
for that matter.
If a man tells me he is in no rush to find someone
special, then I know that he is not ready for a serious relationship and he
just needs friends. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that. I like to have
friends too. The more the merrier.
If a man says he just wants love, but no
commitment. I wish him luck. I’m sure there are many girls who can love without
any committeemen too. But not me.
If a man says he needs more than one girl to make
him happy, then I know he has different values from me and will not stay
monogamous. It wouldn’t be fair, because I only need one man to be happy.
If a man is crazy enough to fall for me, and loses
his mind completely to the extent to propose or at least show his intent to
build something for the future, well, I will then seriously consider our
expectations and evaluate the possibility of forming the partnership. Together
we can slowly figure out if we can learn to love each other the way we want to
be loved.
Sorry, I’m too serious even for my own liking. But
really, give me one good reason why I should fall in love with a man just for
the “love” sake?
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